The Essence of Love…
Written on April 10, 2007 – 2:51 am | by shenbrood
We often times asked ourselves why do we love someone and why are we always hurting deep inside whenever that someone leaves us. We asked ourselves if it is still worth it to love someone and just be hurt in the end.
Sa dinami dami nga naman ng mga pwedeng maramdaman sa mundo bakit pagibig ang parehong napakasarap at napakasakit na bagay na pwedeng maramdaman ng isang tao. Masaya ka pag andyan ang taong mahal mo pero sa sandaling saihin nya na teka muna andyan na ang sakit na iyong mararamdaman. Hmmm… ang gulo noh. Pero natanong na ba natin o napag-isipan natin kung ano nga ba ang pag-ibig.
Para sa akin ang pag-ibig dati ay sinisimbulo ng dalawang taong nagmamahalan ng tapat at totoo sa bawat isa. Ito ang pag-ibig… pero sa sandaling ito, naiba na 
ang pananaw ko sa pag-ibig…
Ang pag-ibig ay isang bagay na ibinibigay mo at ipinararamdam sa isang tao ng wala kang hinihintay na anumang kapalit. Hindi mo hinihintay na ibigin ka rin nya o suklian ang anumang pagmamahal na iyong ipinakikita.
Love is something that we give freely without expecting something in return. When we feel this then we have truly experience the power of love.
Para sa akin nararanasan ko na ito… anupaman ang mangyari patuloy kung mamahalin ang mga taong mahal ko at kailanman ay hindi ako aasa na suklian nila ang pagmamahal na ito… maging sila ay kaibigan… kasama o tunay kong minamahal sa puso.
Di na kailangang maghintay sapagkat ang ganitong pag-ibig ay hindi naghihintay subalit patuloy na nagbibigay.
Salamat sa taong nagturo sa akin na magmahal ng ganito… MARAMING SALAMAT!
3 Responses to “The Essence of Love…”
By a RAY on Apr 15, 2007 | Reply
wow,, napakaganda talaga ng story mo kuya.. nakakashock..
the truth is, i cant imagine that life is so cruel.. [or baka talgang simple lang ang buhay ko that i dont even perceive that such things could happen]
then another thing is the courage you posses to broadcast the miserable experinces that you have gone through.. i believe that not everybody is as brave like..
kaya kuya… though i am really problematic in my life right now because i dont find myself a direction to take,, i want to thank you because you have inspired me that life, though thought to be complicated, should still be enjoyed..
thanks.. and good luck to your carreer.. at buhay…
By Cliff on Apr 18, 2007 | Reply
Forgive me for the late response my friend. Love is at its most powerful form when one gives affection towards someone/something disregarding any self inflictions. In our society today “Two-way” love is the better option, because two-way love enables an exchange of feelings towards each other, thus making it “equal”. You have thought me never to give “all that I have” to anyone, You also told me to always “leave some for yourself”, I know you are a very smart person.. but to be frank you can sometimes be foolish, Never be blinded by “good things” everything has its “opposite” value. The better the thing, the worst its opposite is.
The perfect harmony among everything must have a balance, Thus the idea of “Yin Yang” exist, the positive “Yang” (White) posses small part of “Yin” (Black) because no individual can achieve harmoney. If the other counterpart, the negative “Yin” posses a small part of “Yang”, and thus meet. This is the harmony of completing each other, Negating each others weakness and amplifies both’s strengths. If you give all of your food to me, you will soon go hungry and die, and if you give none, I will die. But if we share and combine our abilities to gather more, we will survive. As I see it, “unconditional love” is a thing of the past, try living a “two-way” love, live for the benefit of each other and survive for the sake of each other.
You are a brave person, but bravery is not everything, Sometimes you need to be a coward in order to achieve greater things. Understand that you need to give up something to gain another, but giving everything will leave you all or nothing …
By JeROmeLee on Jun 1, 2008 | Reply
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